Saturday, December 5, 2009

"Eight Lies of a Mother"

This story begins when I was a child: I was born poor. Often we
hadn't

enough to eat. Whenever we had some food, Mother often gave me her
portion

of rice. While she was transferring her rice into my bowl, she would
say

"Eat this rice, son! I'm not hungry."



This was Mother's First Lie.






As I grew, Mother gave up her spare time to fish in a river near our

house; she hoped that from the fish she caught, she could give me a
little

bit more nutritious food for my growth. Once she had caught just two
fish,

she would make fish soup. While I was eating the soup, mother would
sit

beside me and eat the what was still left on the bone of the fish I
had

eaten, My heart was touched when I saw it. Once I gave the other fish
to

her on my chopstick but she immediately refused it and said, "Eat
this

fish, son! I don't really like fish."



This was Mother's Second Lie.






Then, in order to fund my education, Mother went to a Match Factory
to

bring home some used matchboxes, which she filled with fresh
matchsticks.

This helped her get some money to cover our needs. One wintry night I

awoke to find Mother filling the matchboxes by candlelight. So I
said,

"Mother, go to sleep; it's late: you can continue working tomorrow

morning." Mother smiled and said, "Go to sleep, son! I'm not tired."



This was Mother's Third Lie.






When I had to sit my Final Examination, Mother accompanied me. After
dawn,

Mother waited for me for hours in the heat of the sun. When the bell
rang,

I ran to meet her.. Mother embraced me and poured me a glass of tea
that

she had prepared in a thermos. The tea was not as strong as my
Mother's

love. Seeing Mother covered with perspiration, I at once gave her my
glass

and asked her to drink too. Mother said, "Drink, son! I'm not
thirsty!".



This was Mother's Fourth Lie.






After Father's death, Mother had to play the role of a single parent.
She

held on to her former job; she had to fund our needs alone. Our
family's

life was more complicated. We suffered from starvation. Seeing our

family's condition worsening, my kind Uncle who lived near my house
came

to help us solve our problems big and small. Our other neighbors saw
that

we were poverty stricken so they often advised my mother to marry
again.

But Mother refused to remarry saying, "I don't need love."



This was Mother's Fifth Lie.






After I had finished my studies and gotten a job, it was time for my
old

Mother to retire but she carried on going to the market every morning
just

to sell a few vegetables. I kept sending her money but she was
steadfast

and even sent the money back to me. She said, "I have enough money."



That was Mother's Sixth Lie.






I continued my part-time studies for my Master's Degree. Funded by
the

American Corporation for which I worked, I succeeded in my studies.
With a

big jump in my salary, I decided to bring Mother to enjoy life in
America

but Mother didn't want to bother her son; she said to me "I'm not used
to

high living."



That was Mother's Seventh Lie.






In her dotage, Mother was attacked by cancer and had to be
hospitalized.

Now living far across the ocean, I went home to visit Mother who was

bedridden after an operation. Mother tried to smile but I was
heartbroken

because she was so thin and feeble but Mother said, "Don't cry, son!
I'm

not in pain."



That was Mother's Eighth Lie.






Telling me this, her eighth lie, she died.



YES, MOTHER WAS AN ANGEL!






M - O - T - H - E - R



"M" is for the Million things she gave me,



"O" means Only that she's growing old,



"T" is for the Tears she shed to save me,



"H" is for her Heart of gold,



"E" is for her Eyes with love-light shining in them,



"R" means Right, and right she'll always be.



Put them all together, they spell "MOTHER" a word that means the world
to

me. For those of you who are lucky to be still blessed with your
Mom's

presence on Earth, this story is beautiful. For those who aren't so

blessed, this is even more beautiful.

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